If you want to improve your confidence there are 3 things you should immediately get rid of.
- Fear
Fear is the primary reason that contributes to our lack of confidence. Fear of judgement, Fear of being mocked, Fear of rejection. Fear of being taken for somebody you’re not. But what’s interesting is that most of these things are in our heads. In other words, we knowingly let these type thoughts run wild in our heads. So you need to actively exercise resisting fear if you want to build your confidence
- Over Thinking
Now, this one I know a lot of people including myself struggle with. So, when we want to do something some of us have this stupid habit of over analyzing things and situations even building imaginary scenarios in our head like what if this happens, what if something goes wrong Which really hinders our ability to stack up our courage and get stuff done. Hence you should always consciously stop yourself when you feel yourself rolling into that pattern of thought
- Sense of Pride
Most of us this general tendency to think that we are better, unique than others which in turn makes us feel like we always have something to prove and if we somehow fail at something then it’s the end of the world. This is a very dangerous mindset and you should immediately get rid of